top of page
All Posts


You're Exhausted, But Sleep Won't Come...The Hidden Way Loss Disrupts Rest
You’re bone-tired, but your mind won’t stop.
The room is dark, the house is quiet… and yet you’re still wide awake.
You tell yourself, If I fall asleep now, I’ll still get five hours… four hours… three hours… — but sleep never comes.
If you’ve been here since your loss, it’s not just in your head — grief actually changes the way your body rests. And the reason why might surprise you.

Benita Hampton
Sep 12, 20252 min read


What I Wish I'd Known About Grief Before Losing My Parents
Grief caught me off guard—I wish someone had given me a roadmap before I lost my parents. In this post, I share what hindsight has taught me: that grief isn’t just an emotional storm, but a journey into parts of yourself you never expected to visit. From permission to feel every ache and confusion, to learning how essential compassion can be to navigate loss, this is what I wish I could go back and tell my younger self.

Benita Hampton
Aug 29, 20253 min read


Men & Grief: Do They Get the Short End of the Stick? Why we need to talk about how men are allowed to grieve
When it comes to grief, men often get a smaller box to fit into—and sometimes, it feels like the lid is nailed shut. Society’s unspoken rules still tell men to “stay strong,” “hold it together,” or “move on,” leaving little room for honest emotion. In this post, we’ll explore why these outdated expectations hurt more than they help, how they silence needed conversations, and why giving men permission to grieve openly isn’t just compassionate—it’s necessary for healing.

Benita Hampton
Aug 15, 20253 min read


Myths About Grief...(Because What you've heard isn't always true)
Let's take a quick look at the most common misconceptions about grief, because what you've heard is not always true.

Benita Hampton
Aug 1, 20253 min read


When Grief Crashes The BBQ...Why it's ok to say "no" to Summer gatherings, without the guilt.
With the 4th of July kicking off summer bbq season, it brings along new challenges for those who are in the midst of their grief journey.

Benita Hampton
Jul 3, 20253 min read


Father's Day Reflections...Healing from Loss
Father's Day can be a day of emotional landmines for those of us who are grieving the loss of our Dads. Here are a few tidbits from a grief coach to help you through this upcoming Father's Day.

Benita Hampton
Jun 11, 20252 min read


How working with a professional grief coach can help you on your grief journey
Have you ever wondered what working with a professional grief coach is like? If you've got three minutes I'd love to give you a quick rundown.

Benita Hampton
Apr 29, 20253 min read


Understanding Non-Death Grief: Why All Losses Matter
When we think of grief, we often associate it with the death of a loved one. But grief isn’t limited to loss through death—it can stem...

Benita Hampton
Apr 12, 20254 min read


The Physical Side of Grief That No One Talks About
A look into the physical side of grief that nobody talks about. Written by professional grief coach Benita Hampton, CPC

Benita Hampton
Mar 31, 20253 min read


The Role Rituals Can Play to Help Honor Your Loved One
Losing someone you love changes everything. It reshapes your world and your routines, often leaving you wondering how to move forward...

Benita Hampton
Mar 15, 20253 min read


Navigating Grief on Valentine's Day: Finding Love in Memories
Valentine's Day can trigger big emotions for a grieving heart. Here's a mini "survival guide" to help you get through this tough day.

Benita Hampton
Feb 1, 20253 min read


Why Nutrition and Fitness Matter on Your Grief Journey
A quick look into why nutrition and fitness really do matter on your grief journey.

Benita Hampton
Jan 25, 20253 min read


Grief to Grateful? What does that even mean? Rambling thoughts from a grief coach
Let's take a quick look at the role that gratitude can play in your grief journey

Benita Hampton
Jan 16, 20254 min read


Skip the Resolutions: Embrace SMART Goals for a Meaningful New Year (Grief Edition)
New Year, New You? Skip the resolutions and embrace SMART Goals on your grief journey in the coming year.

Benita Hampton
Dec 23, 20242 min read


An open Letter to grievers...from a grief coach
A letter to grievers from the perspective of a grief coach. A quick read designed to provide you with actionable steps on your grief journey

Benita Hampton
Dec 11, 20243 min read


Navigating Grief...How to help a child heal
Is a child in your life experiencing grief? Here are some quick tips to help you provide the support they need.

Benita Hampton
Nov 15, 20243 min read


When the holidays aren't so merry...Navigating grief during the "festive" season.
The holiday season can be a minefield of triggers for you when you are grieving a loss. Here are some quick tips to consider.

Benita Hampton
Oct 26, 20243 min read


Navigating the Grief Roller Coaster
Feeling like your emotions are all over the place? That's the nature of grief. It's messy business

Benita Hampton
Oct 18, 20243 min read


Grief & Guilt...Why do they seem to go hand in hand?
A quick look at the connection between grief and guilt.

Benita Hampton
Oct 4, 20243 min read


Hope & Grief...Yes, they can co-exist
Grief is messy business and it can feel like an all-consuming shadow, dimming the bright parts of our life and leaving us in a place of...

Benita Hampton
Sep 20, 20243 min read
bottom of page